tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post981257182023043108..comments2024-03-02T15:15:47.208+05:30Comments on The not-so artful dodger: Going green?Artnavyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15060564468230843716noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-66726862493729193202009-10-26T15:03:07.814+05:302009-10-26T15:03:07.814+05:30Art, whatever sleep arrangement works for you plea...Art, whatever sleep arrangement works for you please go ahead and do that. <br /><br />But one piece of honest advice - do not draw any conclusions on the nature of the sibling relationship between Aditi and Anush, not now, not ever. It's hard, but you have to remember that it's "their" relationship, they will write the rules themselves :)<br /><br />I know how it is, having been there myself, you are naturally anxious that Anush is happy and that she loves Aditi, but you would do well not to worry about it at all and let nature do it's work. They are sisters, they will squabble and they will love each other.<br /><br />A moment here and there might happen - no big deal. Take it in your stride and don't give it too much importance! Good luck!Poppinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11199077808716988320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-21513143325457794122009-10-26T11:58:19.052+05:302009-10-26T11:58:19.052+05:30thanx all for the advice/ reassurancethanx all for the advice/ reassuranceartnavynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-79454909191804237802009-10-25T23:52:29.106+05:302009-10-25T23:52:29.106+05:30you know i had the same fear with mine but the bra...you know i had the same fear with mine but the brat soon learnt to sleep through her night feeds, colic pain and diaper changes. <br /><br />at times he'd wake up, pad into our bed and watch her being changed and then fall asleep... <br /><br />but basically he took it in his stride and made it to school the next day..... <br /><br />you're right - there is no easy answer, but i personally feel he benefitted from learning to adjust and sleep with his sister in the room<br /><br />hugs to the two of themthe mad mommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14535453643548976883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-5203567543834469132009-10-25T22:27:10.729+05:302009-10-25T22:27:10.729+05:30Hey Art! I want to tell you that this is perfectly...Hey Art! I want to tell you that this is perfectly normal. My EO used to do exactly the same thing!Mamma mia! Me a mamma?https://www.blogger.com/profile/04136269509737254271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-90755134499038171442009-10-24T17:03:02.847+05:302009-10-24T17:03:02.847+05:30Anush is the older sister but not yet old enough t...Anush is the older sister but not yet old enough to understand so much so soon.She has the right to 'go green' once in a way. Once the little one begins to crawl and give her company she's bound to have her share of fun.tell anush that it won't be long before she gets to actually play with her. and you and Naveen can 'go green' when anush ignores you.Hip Grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891699611146003601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-85406719551952472622009-10-23T14:00:13.786+05:302009-10-23T14:00:13.786+05:30totally with you - when they act 'all sensible...totally with you - when they act 'all sensible' its even tougher!Choxboxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03741540918529448553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-50072598606156882972009-10-23T08:41:20.632+05:302009-10-23T08:41:20.632+05:30starry/CA-
that is indeed reassuring
usha/ jlt/a...starry/CA- <br />that is indeed reassuring<br /><br />usha/ jlt/abha- <br />just to clarify we all sleep in the same room<br />i just took a brief break late at night and anush got to know<br /><br />anyway last night aditi was fantastic and hardly whimpered for just 2 feeds- so all of us are well rested and HAPPY<br /><br />as it is we r all focussing on anushka all the time since aditi is so tiny!! <br /><br />despite this if she is insecure or sad it hurts doubly - <br /><br />also since she usually does not cry it is difficult to digest<br /><br />i think we all had broken hearts yesterday...:-))artnavynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-26809156286232097152009-10-22T23:30:55.581+05:302009-10-22T23:30:55.581+05:30Oh ... the initial days are indeed hard.
But you w...Oh ... the initial days are indeed hard.<br />But you will get over it.<br /><br /> You know in our house these days, once Junior gets up in the middle of night, she refuses to sleep with us .. she insists on sleeping with Akka. When akka learns about this, she is only too happy to sleep with her sister. :)Cantaloupes.Amma (CA)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06507339903683786496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-43654624467341002802009-10-22T17:19:02.319+05:302009-10-22T17:19:02.319+05:30:)
yup. go with everyones suggestion that anush s...:)<br /><br />yup. go with everyones suggestion that anush sleep with baby and you. <br /><br />and whatever we know of her from the blog, she will get adjusted sooner than later! :)<br /><br />hugs!Mama - Miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06330103540647472728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-76496570333643343052009-10-22T16:53:20.447+05:302009-10-22T16:53:20.447+05:30I don't think she is jealous. YOu know I am pa...I don't think she is jealous. YOu know I am partial to her but I really think that there are too many changes she is experiencing in her environment and for a four year old it is all a bit much to cope. This is just a natural reaction.Ushahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00179239922869639391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-77767696898762031162009-10-22T13:57:02.963+05:302009-10-22T13:57:02.963+05:30awww... let Anush sleep with you...sharing you is ...awww... let Anush sleep with you...sharing you is a big deal, after all. its early times yet. HUGS!Just Like Thathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04156108159461377932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-30100850854067636762009-10-22T11:17:41.022+05:302009-10-22T11:17:41.022+05:30Awwww...sweet Anush n worried you...adjustments ar...Awwww...sweet Anush n worried you...adjustments are difficult, but you'll get there...with whichever sleeping arrangement...as long as everybody's well-rested n undisturbed and baby well-fed and Anush secure again:)<br /><br />Hugs!starry eyedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02821016011330573083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-65953998730867478802009-10-22T10:51:41.820+05:302009-10-22T10:51:41.820+05:30ibh- :-))
chox-
we all do sleep in the same room...ibh- :-))<br /><br />chox- <br />we all do sleep in the same room. <br /><br />i stepped out for a while with aditi around mid night....but unfortunately that was when anush woke up....<br /><br />vj<br />i guess so...artnavynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-730266711093606382009-10-22T09:52:47.477+05:302009-10-22T09:52:47.477+05:30it IS a huge change. a suggestion - try sleeping w...it IS a huge change. a suggestion - try sleeping with the baby and anush. tonight. <br /><br />if she does get disturbed and doesnt sleep well, she might miss school one day tomorrow. big deal in the scheme of things. might make her see what you are saying.<br /><br />on the other hand (like in our case) it wont disturb her at all.Choxboxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03741540918529448553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-37768649660232940952009-10-22T09:03:29.287+05:302009-10-22T09:03:29.287+05:30Awww... I am going to support Anush on this one.
m...Awww... I am going to support Anush on this one.<br />maybe its nothing to do with going green.. its insecurity like you said.. and they are 2 different things.arent they?VJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15818201555320410566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33583900.post-78618600146086905312009-10-22T08:44:22.493+05:302009-10-22T08:44:22.493+05:30thank you so much for that personal gift :) Sami h...thank you so much for that personal gift :) Sami has stuck it in her room on the door...she just loves it :)I have taken a pic of that dress...she loved it...that bow and pink :) sigh! how much ever i try her not to be pinky girl...this girl is all for pink :)loves pink...:)IBHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06489062692171254536noreply@blogger.com